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I am 31, 5 6 tall and monogamous and straight. I have no kids and am a non smoker drinker and I don\'t use drugs. I am blind and am frustrated that all my friends are in a relationship or are getting married and I am still single. I am frustrated that I have not had sex since I was 19 and I am now 31. I just wish that for once in my life that I would be able to find a good person to have a long term relationship with and sex. I am a good lissiner and have a lot of love to give but it seems that the most people want to be with me is friends. the longest relationship I had was back in highschool and that was for 2 years. that was also over 10 years ago. it seems like the women I seem to attract are eather hookers or have a few screws loose or are bie. I can\'t seem to find a single straight monogamous woman who doesn\'t have kids and who wants to date me. I am blind and I don\'twork so I have a lot of free time on my hands for this kind of a relationship. I like to go out for walks, out to eat and out to the movies. I just wish that there was some one out there who would find me attractive and want to date me since I have almost givin up hope. my sister has been married for over 12 years and she has 3 kids and even she doesn\'t know any one who she can set me up with. I have tried on line dating, chatt lines, and stuff like that and nothing seems to work. I have even tried to join a cooking class to try to meet people and wile there are people there nun of them are single. it just sucks since I am not only sexuly frustrated but frustrated that I have not found the love of my life and wonder if I ever will.

#389 — Comments (0) — 10/28/2014 at 6:10 PM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
The choices I make seem to alienate me. I\'m either too \"light\" or on the flip side too \"dark\" for most people. At work people will judge me for not drinking or for not being in casual relationships but then in my personal life people judge me for supporting things like divorce. I find it so ironic what the two worlds will hinge on and I always think to myself - if only you knew who hated me at work or if you only knew who hated me at home. I feel like there\'s no way for me to strike a compromise. I also get frustrated because I honestly don\'t understand why people care about what I think anyways. I am a 26 year-old female living on my own. I\'m a tiny fish at work, doing a simple job. I guess it would just make more sense to me if I was a manager or married with children. But when you\'re on your own like I am, making payments with a tiny job, why people get so wriled up about me is beyond me. I feel like people are constantly talking behind my back. I get negative feedback on my facebook all the time. I don\'t know how to stop it. I can\'t help it if I don\'t agree with you. It doesn\'t stop my life if you hate my hair, my beliefs, my one bedroom apartment with no washer-dryer or dishwasher. I don\'t see why anything I say should stop yours. My life could fit into a shoebox. You have a spouse, a good paying job, a stable family. On the scale of life you could beat me out of the park without even trying. What does it matter what I think when you\'re already winning? The way I see it from where I\'m standing, people should take one look at me and then forget that I exist. Why the opposite is true is starting to overwhelm and suffocate me. Especially since I never seek them out.

#365 — Comments (0) — 7/5/2014 at 2:02 PM — Relationships — I Feel You (2) — Get Over It (0)
I am in a relationship with a girl who is 2 years older then me. I like her from starting of the college but earlier she is in a relation with other guy. Nowadays we are in a good relationship she also loves me a lot and i also love her a lot. But she said she was pregnant and abort the child in previous relation. I said i don\'t care about your past everyone have their own past i love you and you love me thats it. But nowadays i feel very sad when i remember her past.

#361 — Comments (206) — 5/4/2014 at 2:56 PM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
I think I\'m developing feelings for my sister-in-law\'s aunt... I really don\'t know much about her, and rarely ever see her... but the times I do, my insides stir. My superego works overtime to keep myself inline. To make matters worse, I already have a GF of 5 years that I love dearly (and want to marry, but $$$). Luckily, if both my GF and my brother\'s aunt-in-law (is that a thing?) are in the same area, i can focus my attentions toward my GF and away from her, but if I find myself alone with her, I fear what my id might make me do...

Getting with/F*****g her would not only ruin my brother\'s marriage & my relationship, but my family would pretty much disown me (they\'re honorable like that)... But she is single, and attractive (at least to me, I kind of like older women of her persuasion)... I want her so bad, SO BAD...

SO F*****G BAD... just typing this makes my insides stir up again, I think of what I would do to her if I had her to myself... But this is the real world, not a porno... FML

<Primal, yet frustrated scream>

P.S. Gonna go splash cold water on my face... gotta calm down

#356 — Comments (0) — 3/9/2014 at 4:24 AM — Relationships — I Feel You (3) — Get Over It (1)
I can't take this anymore!! In a relationship for 4 years with a guy who lives halfway across the world. He'll be done with school in another 3 years and then MAYBE he can get a job in the same country as me. I don't have any of the benefits couples have (closeness, intimacy) or any of the benefits singles have (no restrictions on where you can go or who you can hang out with). But I can't break up with him because talking to him is the only thing that makes me happy, it's the only way I really feel like myself. I laugh with him, I cry with him, and we love each other more than life itself. I'd die for this boy, and he'd do the same for me. I just feel so lonely and I miss having him with me and it absolutely sucks!!! ARGHHHH!!!

#353 — Comments (12641) — 2/3/2014 at 2:04 AM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
middle class family living in small house in Slum, I am in relationship since my graduation now its almost 4 years completed. my girl loves me a lot even i do more, currently i am working in private bank as Financial analyst, recently her parents came to know about this, then her father came to my house and he told me to leave her, else he will suicide etc etc he told and left, after going back he told my girl that my house is very small (she never been to my house). today she called me and told she cant leave with me in that house, she telling to leave my parents and come, i am totally frustrated because of her words she spoke with me in call, now she thinking like she made a big mistake by choosing, just because i am leaving in small house, it doesn't mean i cant look after her, i do have job, definitely will settle in my life, but she made me so embarrassed and i feeling guilty, really not getting what to do.

#348 — Comments (21866) — 12/27/2013 at 7:38 PM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
have been in a complicated relationship with someone for 2 years on and off all the time, given him so many chances, a few months ago he was begging for me back constantly wanting to talk to me all the time but I had decided I was over it.
Decided to give it another try and after about a month he doesn't say anything to me, just leaves and now it's frustrating me so much because I gave him another chance!!!
and now it feels like he doesn't even care about me anymore but I'm left still caring for him
WHY DOES NOTHING GO RIGHT FOR ME AND BOYS

#347 — Comments (0) — 12/21/2013 at 7:46 PM — Relationships — I Feel You (0) — Get Over It (3)
I was the most happiest, socially confident person I ever knew but ever since college has started I've developed social anxiety and depression and now my life has turned for the worst. The shame and anger is too much to bear. No one understands and I have slowly isolated myself in my room. I have become a shell of who I once was. Oh how I long for a genuine laugh, a deep conversation or a sign that it might get better. I am at the end of my ropes... A true hero to zero story.

#342 — Comments (0) — 11/13/2013 at 5:21 AM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
I was the most happiest, socially confident person I ever knew but ever since college has started I've developed social anxiety and depression and now my life has turned for the worst. The shame and anger is too much to bear. No one understands and I have slowly isolated myself in my room. A true hero to zero story.

#341 — Comments (0) — 11/13/2013 at 5:20 AM — Relationships — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
Im involved with a married man who is buying a house with his wife just to dump her and move me in . If that isn't crazy enough we own a business together that is hanging on by a thread. I've given up my profession to invest time in this business whatever the cost and I can't provide for myself . I love this man , my heart is his but he has no time for me while pretending to be there for her so the deal on the house goes through . I'm getting older and I'm an attractive woman with three guys who try to talk to me right now , non of which I care to have a relationship with ! I feel left out , broke, confused , mad , jealous at times , I want to drink and have sex till I drop dead because these are the only two things that make te feel good enough to forget what a crappy life I'm living . It's Alwsys been one disaster after another for me probabally a result from my dumb unthought of decisions ! Sometimes I wonder why I go on I just know there's no choice unless I take a cowards way out . I just pray for strength and keep looking for options keep me in mind . Looking for my rainbow .

#336 — Comments (2775129) — 9/26/2013 at 1:18 AM — Relationships — I Feel You (11) — Get Over It (9)

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