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I\'m a 23 year old mother of two boys ages 2 and 5. I had my first son at the age of 18 and my second 3 years later. I\'ve held many jobs within the years, and a lot of them were absolutely not fulfilling and I feel I didn\'t gain anything from them, not even a steady enough income to comfortably take care of me and my family. I\'m still in a relationship with the father of my boys that has been going on for 8 years and we\'ve had our share of ups and downs that still effect me to this day. To get to the point, I\'m so frustrated with my life because I feel I missed out on a LOT of opportunities becoming a mom so young and I try not o focus on the WHAT IF\'s but its hard to know that I had such a bright future ahead of me filled with countless opportunities and now I struggle to finish college with only a year left, I struggle with bills, and issues within my relationship, that happiness, something that is free seems so hard to find. I want to live a life of happiness, continue to thrive and strive for my boys but also stress less and make sure I am content and just happy. I don\'t want to look up and I\'m older and feel as if life has just passed me by. I want to now work on creating memories, setting goals and accomplishing them, and start on the path to finding myself and who I am underneath my burdens. I understand life isn\'t rainbows and clear skies everyday, and I know I can and will overcome my current situations, but I just hope that I find an inner peace within my self so that I can wake up in the morning grateful and happy for a new day instead of anticipating disappointments and new worries. Thanks for reading, hopefully someone out there understands and it feels great to finally share these feelings.

#400 — Comments (1) — 1/4/2015 at 9:23 PM — Life — I Feel You (4) — Get Over It (0)
Experienced sudden death of father(Sudden Cardiac Death) few months ago.First traumatic event of my life.Living with my mother in the same home.Everyday reminded of the past memories whenever I pass from the same places around home and even in the city.Just feel like going away from this \"negetive\" place which is a reminder of that incident and all the emotional turmoil and exasperation.But I do realise I must develop Psychological resilience and face this with courage and optimism.Any suggestions are most welcome and many thanks for allowing me to share.

#399 — Comments (0) — 12/13/2014 at 6:01 PM — Life — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (3)
I am just so tired of doing everything asked of me and nothing going right. I graduated high school, and college and they told me that would be enough to get me a good job but it\'s not. Yes I had 2 kids before finishing but my husband got a good job, why not me? I want to do so much but am tied down by my kids and I have hyperthyroidism which sucks all my energy. Sometimes I wish I could do everything over again and only listen to my self. I\'m 28 years old and still stuck working entry level jobs, making minimum wage and just as unhappy as if I had depression. I also don\'t have any real friends. All my friends only call me when they want to unload on me or the need me to watch their kids. I love to help but I\'m being taken advantage of and I want to move out of this state. I want to act, sing, play music and travel like I did when I was young. I don\'t want to be stuck in this nothingness of an existence. I want to work in a place that values me and pays me well enough to really do what I need to do. Life has an awful way of building character.

#397 — Comments (0) — 12/8/2014 at 6:50 PM — Life — I Feel You (2) — Get Over It (3)
Im 21 .. im an engineering student frm chennai.. im really frustated about my life and feeling y am i born in this world.. though my family is financially more strong .. i got good relations around me who have succeded to the peak .. frm my childhood i havent taken things seroius.. i ahd a tough time during my 10 grades... after tat reasonably i was into diploma.. where i new this is life. i scored. i got wise gt more support from all . as soon completing tat i got into engineering.. since i studied diploma.. ppl in my family and my school friends started to see my more cheap then began to treat me ill. by i got through my diploma really hard.. focused gt good grades. on seeing tat my parents where really happy. through lateral entry i joined into an engineering college which belongs to the same instution .. 3rd sem i didnt even have an idea wt this fucking engineering is .. y am i into this.. out to be frank after 2 months getting into the college only i knew this college isnt deemed and it comes under sme university on this basis we should be writing semesters.. it went on.. i made sme friends over there.. all were really freindly ..but nt too attached.. frm nowhere i started to lower my grades.. and gt arrear as visually to eyes.. i didnt hide to my parents. similarly next sem i gt arrears but this time i lied to my parents .. where i came to a state which is unexplainable .. i didnt get caught anyway..i gt sme friends who also had arrears like me.. 5th sem went arrears.. 6th sem arrears.. but this time they caught me red handed. . no true friends..i get insults frm all... parents started to hate me nw.
realtives illtreat. dnt knw wt to dooo. realy frustrate. smetimes think of ending up my life..

#395 — Comments (1843) — 11/19/2014 at 1:36 PM — Life — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (1)
I hate my life. No one likes or loves me. My friends fight with me for unnecessary reasons and family are always in tension about me, for if I will do anything good in future, and above all of them my exams are coming and because of all this I am not able to study. I don\'t want to live . All this is so frustrating.

#391 — Comments (0) — 11/8/2014 at 5:32 PM — Life — I Feel You (7) — Get Over It (4)
I an a recent grad of nursing school and i am happy with that part of my life but i feel like my husband dosent love me the way i love him. He is in anthoer state and he has been on adult website for porn. At this point in my life i just want a loyal partner that i can be loyal n love unconditionally and we build together. I frustrated cause once again i put myself out there and it looking like im going to be the one hurt. I know hes lied to me and he feels as if e can tell me what he wants and the rest he dosent. i just really hurting inside and he never understands me. i brought a house recently before school and i been living here for almost 2yrs. he cant come until they switch his parole. been praying but no answer n i just dont know what to do. hes moody and dosent want to talk on the phone. i am so frustrated

#390 — Comments (0) — 11/4/2014 at 8:09 PM — Life — I Feel You (2) — Get Over It (1)
I\'m 19 and I\'m currently attending college. This is my second semester here and I honestly absolutely hate it with a passion. I mean don\'t get me wrong, I love the college experience, but I am beyond frustrated with my classes. For whatever reason I just feel like I am wasting my time and money here. I\'ve already switched my major and still have no fucking idea what I want to do. I feel so much pressure, not necessarily from my family, but just from society in general to get a four year degree, which I know is not right for everyone. I honestly don\'t think it is right for me. At least I have general idea about what I\'m passionate about and what I love to do. I absolutely love cars and anything with wheels. I\'m also extremely frustrated with my love life. Growing up I was the fat sheltered kid who went to private school k-12. Now that I have gotten to college, I have started to blossom socially, but I\'m still a virgin and I haven\'t even kissed a girl. I have lost 20 lbs, but I need to lose another 40 to 50 lbs to reach my goal. I am very frustrated because I just feel like I am going no where in life, almost like I\'m stuck in the mud. I know I\'m only 19 and my life is pretty much just getting started, but it\'s still really fucking frustrating.

#387 — Comments (0) — 10/13/2014 at 7:41 PM — Life — I Feel You (1) — Get Over It (0)
I am a successful entrepreneur and church leader. A dedicated mission president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints to be exact. At least that\\\\\\\'s how I\\\\\\\'m perceived by other people. But deep inside I\\\\\\\'m really troubled by a guilty conscience. No, I never murdered anybody or committed concubinage, or stuff like that; but I do abuse my wife and children physically and verbally. I also entertain immoral thoughts when I\\\\\\\'m interviewing female missionaries in the mission where I have been called to preside over (somewhere in the southern Luzon area of the Philippines). In short, I don\\\\\\\'t practice what I preach, and it\\\\\\\'s causing me sleepless nights because a lot of young people put their trust in me. The church leadership also has great trust in me (I have been an area authority once). But I must admit it\\\\\\\'s so hard to change. Oh, and lies? Yes, I tell a lot of them. I hope everything\\\\\\\'s not too late for me. Can anyone please help me?

#383 — Comments (1) — 9/22/2014 at 7:48 AM — Life — I Feel You (0) — Get Over It (4)
We moved to another state to take care of a family member, they died, now we have all the belongings to take care of and distribute, sell, whatever. My SO is very frustrated and at wits end. We want to get this done and move somewhere we like. No jobs here, tired of being broke and frustrated. Hardest time of my life. I\'m tough but this is wearing on me. Wish I had some easy answers, but there are none. I don\'t want all this to affect my marriage. Hard when people around you are emotionally fragile. So frustrated....

#378 — Comments (0) — 9/5/2014 at 4:18 AM — Life — I Feel You (2) — Get Over It (0)
I came me on this site and had a read of peoples frustrations has made me feel less alone. I guess it\\\\\\\'s hard going through life with a fake smile and so many frustrations just trying to get by. A lot of people I know seem to have a good understanding of who they are and where they want to go in life, while I feel like I\\\\\\\'m just floating around aimlessly with no destination or clue of where it is I have to go.

I\\\\\\\'m going to write my frustrations on paper and write possible solutions for my problems, hoping I can figure things out and clear my head.

#376 — Comments (0) — 8/26/2014 at 9:40 AM — Life — I Feel You (2) — Get Over It (0)

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