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I don't have it nearly as bad as many, but here goes. Had a surgery go wrong five years ago. Lost everything, the career, home, possessions. Was denied litigation against the surgeon, as it wasn't listed as an asset in the resulting bankruptcy. After two years of being suspended by medications, and another two learning to walk I am at least in great shape, though unable to work.
Of course this makes me one of the "losers" in society, even after working as a professional for decades.
Seems today you're either successful, or worthless. The elimination of the middle class has caused this type of frustration for many.
My biggest frustration has been reconnecting with people. Those I was once close to, even family moved on with their lives in the first years I was gone. Have been separated 17 months from my wife. Can't seem to connect with the kids. Hard to say what lie ahead for me.
Guess all I want to say is for everyone to be careful how you talk with people. Take extra care in judging people. Caring seems to be rare in these days of fast pace jobs and technology. Remember those left behind. Remember it isn't possessions that make a person. It isn't their resources. It's their heart.
Try making a point to be nice in life. All we have is each other in the end.
Happy Tuesday!
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5/21/2013 at 3:43 PM
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Anyone else out there really dislike what it is that they do for a living and are beyond ready to start a new career, but have no idea where to begin??
I\\\\\\\'m 34, married, mortgage, no kids yet and completely frustrated with having to juggle domestic responsibility while trying to simultaneously figure out what in the hell it is that I want to try to do with my life that will make me happy. Anything that interests me feels like such a massive long shot at making into a career. (Writing, acting, music, etc) I\\\\\\\'m totally appreciative of the things I DO have. Steady employment, a home, a beautiful loving wife but shouldnt I still try to find a career that makes me happy instead of just counting my blessings?
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2/16/2012 at 1:36 AM
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I am a grad student, not well off but not broke either. I have no inhibitions whatsoever to talk to strangers or women. I don't judge people like others do. I am good listener, patient, enthusiastic and an adventurous guy. I am well learned and I can talk on almost any topic. I am not well built but I am not fat either. Despite of all these, I never seem to maintain a friend let alone maintaining a girl friend. This happens all the time. Am I the only one like this? If not, where are all the others?
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10/16/2013 at 4:37 AM
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wish I could pick all of the above and everything else as a category. Ive tried being positive, it doesnt FREAKING work. Homeless, deserted by my parents since the age of 14 trying to get on my feet at 26 in the hell of a world unable to fix my ugly crooked teeth and my sagging disgusting 80 year old body from losing half my fat nasty weight. I cant afford school so I have to work the job of a flunky, just to feel like Im not good enough. My car is on its last limb and I cant afford to fix it...I cant afford laundry detergent...oh I guess i have to put in on my credit card..200 more dollars and its maxed out at 5700. I have the WORST luck, no skills whatsoever, I cant find ANYTHING I enjoy and I wish suicide was a WHOLE LOT EASIER
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4/5/2012 at 9:41 PM
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Family is the worst thing that could happen to me.
I wish my parents died or I was never born.
They\'ve controlled and ruined my life. I just cant wait to get out of this prison but Im tiredof waiting.
Im fucking tired. I just want this to end right now. People die in so many ways everyday, why I cant be one of those?
Why the fuck does everything needs to be so slow?
I have no one in my life. I just want to go away. Disappear. Fuck everyone
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10/30/2015 at 3:55 PM
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tired of being taken advantage by men they just can\'t appreciate a good woman
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3/26/2011 at 4:09 AM
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I am so frustrated with life. I hate that I almost always eat alone, I have no one to rely on but myself, I\'m not pretty, I hate the way I look and dress and my friends, even though I never burden them with anything going on in my life, are always frustrated with me. I\'m just done. I\'m tired of always being behind everyone else.
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3/14/2012 at 12:31 AM
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DAMN I AM SOOO FRUSTRATED.. ITS LIKE NOTHING IS GOING RIGHT ANYMORE IN MY LIFE. I AM AT A SITUATION WHERE ALL I SEE IS EVERYTHING FUCKED UP. I CAN NOT CONCENTRATE ON STUDIES ANYMORE, FAM IS GOING THROUGH THIS PATHETIC FINANCIAL DOWN, MOM NOT WELL, SISTER NOT WELL, I MYSLF FEEL MENTALLY ILL NOW, I GET MARRIED IN 7 MONTHS AND WE DNT HAVE MONEY TO DO ANYTHNG FOR THE MARRIAGE, I CAN NOT DO ANYTHNG FOR MY MARRIAGE, I JUST CANT ENJOY THIS WEDDING ANYMORE. I FEEL LIKE SUCHA LOSER. IV NEVER BEEN FRUSTRATED FRM LIKE THAN AS MUCH AS I AM AT THE MOMENT. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME EVERYONE.. I KEEP TELLING EVERYONE THAT I KNOW ALL WILL BE GOOD SOON BUT I DONT REALLY KNOW IF ANYTHING WILL EVER BE GOOD....
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4/2/2012 at 12:20 AM
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So confused. Don't feel like doing anything. No interest in job, eating, or even to live. Dull and depressed all the time. Can't digest loosing him from my life. I screwed up my life... No one else. Not been smart enough. Can't stop thinking of him. Tired of controlling my tears and putting a fake smile. Feel like giving up on life. Just living not to leave my family hurt. I have nothing left for myself. How much evr I try, I don't find living interesting at all. Don't know how long I can hold on like this.
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8/12/2012 at 8:36 PM
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I just got cheated out of my last job... a temp job...by a Lying, Good-For-Nothing "manager" with absolutely ZERO managerial skills. The cunt basically admitted to me & the other temps that she got the job basically because of seniority (about 25 years).
All of the "assessments" submitted about me to my temp agency were either false, or addressed months before getting fired, and the only way that idiot wouldn't have known is if she never paid any attention in the first place.
I think it hurts more mainly because she basically lied to my face the whole time I worked there...
ARE THERE ANY DECENT MANAGERS IN THE WORLD? I'm starting to feel like people become managers because they slept with their boss...
Can anyone out there give me some hope for a decent, steady work life?
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10/8/2012 at 10:16 PM
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